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Loss is a universal experience, yet it often catches us unprepared — emotionally, spiritually, and practically. This thoughtful and compassionate series offers tools, guidance, and community connection to help individuals and families navigate the complexities of loss and end-of-life matters with clarity, dignity, and meaning.
Join us for three informative and supportive sessions led by spiritual leaders, legal experts, and community professionals. Each session will explore a different aspect of preparing for and managing loss, from Jewish traditions and spiritual practices to legal planning and logistical considerations.
Session I: Jewish Ritual and Spiritual Approach to Death
Facilitator: Rabbi Cantor Arlene Bernstein, Beth Israel
Date & Time: Thursday, October 23, 2025 | 11:00 AM
Location: Feuerstein Family Activity Center
Explore how Jewish tradition offers spiritual guidance and comforting rituals around death and mourning. Rabbi Cantor Arlene Bernstein will lead a heartfelt discussion on how Jewish customs help us honor loved ones, support mourners, and find meaning through loss. Topics will include traditional practices such as tahara (ritual purification), kaddish, shiva, and the role of community during times of grief.
Session II: Living Wills, Family Trusts, and Planned Giving – What You Need to Know
Panelists:
- Shoshannah Hart, Esq, Founding Partner Parker & Hart LLP
- Marsha Lubick, Beth Israel Member and former VP for Philanthropy at Sharp Healthcare
- Meg Mandel, Development Director, Beth Israel
- Sharleen Wollach, Executive VP and Chief Impact Officer, Jewish Community Foundation
Date & Time: Thursday, October 30, 2025 | 11:00 AM
Location: Feuerstein Family Activity Center
Planning ahead can provide peace of mind and relieve future burdens on family and loved ones. This session will cover the essentials of legal and financial planning, including living wills, advance directives, family trusts, and charitable planned giving. Learn what documents you need, how to start the conversation with your family, and how your values can be reflected in your legacy.
Session III: The Nuts and Bolts of “Plotzing”
Facilitators:
- Katey Lindley, Director of Caring Community, Beth Israel
- Peter Krantz, Owner and Funeral Home Manager, Am Israel Mortuary
- Jacqueline Saihati, Senior Family Service Counselor, El Camino Memorial Park
Date & Time: Thursday, November 6, 2025 | 11:00 AM
Location: Feuerstein Family Activity Center
This practical session provides a detailed look at what needs to be done when someone dies — from funeral planning to burial arrangements, and everything in between. Learn how to navigate the "nuts and bolts" of loss, including working with funeral homes and cemeteries, organizing services, notifying loved ones, and supporting grieving family members. Our panel will provide checklists, resources, and answer questions in a supportive environment.
Cost: FREE
Who Should Attend: Open to all community members. Whether you are planning for yourself or supporting a loved one, this series offers valuable insight and resources.